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November 2021 Issue

Dwayne Johnson Lets Down His Guard

A no-holds-barred talk with the megastar and entrepreneur about his volatile childhood, his heartbreaking relationship with his dad, and Vin Diesel’s “bullshit.”
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PEACE OUT
Dwayne Johnson, at Yusuian Malibu in California. T-shirt by Hermès; pants by Brioni. Throughout: shaving products by Xotics by Curtis Smith; grooming products by Tom Ford for Men.
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During one of our last conversations, Dwayne Johnson’s five-year-old daughter, Jasmine, comes into his office to ask, a little impatiently, when he will be available to eat some lemon cake with her. She has walked into the middle of a discussion about whether her father truly has presidential ambitions. Earlier this year, after a poll suggested that 46 percent of Americans have some enthusiasm for this recurrently floated idea, Johnson responded on Instagram (where he currently has 270 million followers, the second most of anyone on the planet): “I don’t think our Founding Fathers EVER envisioned a six-four, bald, tattooed, half-Black, half-Samoan, tequila drinking, pick up truck driving, fanny pack wearing guy joining their club—but if it ever happens it’d be my honor to serve you, the people.”

Johnson and I go back and forth on this strange subject for some time as he tries to honestly describe where he stands. He explains that he finds the idea humbling, concedes that he has talked to people in politics and done “a small amount of research and analysis to see where this comes from and to see what it could look like in the future,” and adds suggestively that “indicators are all very positive—in, for example, 2024, and in, for example, 2028.” He is not, he confirms, ruling the possibility out. But then he loops back to this: “You know, at the end of the day, I don’t know the first thing about politics. I don’t know the first thing about policy. I care deeply about our country. I care about every fucking American who bleeds red, and that’s all of them. And—there’s no delusion here—I may have some decent leadership qualities, but that doesn’t necessarily make me a great presidential candidate. That’s where I am today.”

Dwayne Johnson’s sweater by Brunello Cucinelli. PHOTOGRAPHS BY MARK SELIGER. STYLED BY ILARIA URBINATI. 

This is when Jasmine appears to declare her more-lemon-cake-related agenda.

“As soon as I’m done, I’m going to come out and see you, okay?” her father tells her, gently. Then he asks her a question: “Do you know what the president of the United States is?”

Jasmine shakes her head.

“We’re actually talking about that right now,” he explains.

“Oh,” she says.

“If Daddy can become the president of the United States,” Johnson clarifies.

Jasmine—by way of answer or comic accident—indicates the ice-and-tequila-filled tumbler on Johnson’s desk and asks a question of her own:

“Are you drinking this?”

Dwayne Johnson was once a professional wrestler known as The Rock. Aside from his physical capabilities, he was celebrated for the exaggerated way he would raise his right eyebrow, and for an array of cartoonish, pugnacious catchphrases like “If you smell what The Rock is cookin’!” and “The Rock will layeth the smacketh down all over your candy ass!” Johnson sold these lines with great verve and displayed a rare command over wrestling audiences. Even so, when he set his sights on Hollywood, there was little reason to imagine he had the skills that might sustain a long-lasting second career.

For his first starring movie role, in a spirited, serviceable historical action-fantasy romp called The Scorpion King, he was billed only as The Rock. To promote it, Johnson was booked on Howard Stern’s radio show. At one point during this appearance, Stern and his cohosts weighed the possibility that their guest could ever be credited in a movie under his real name. Stern was particularly incredulous.

“As Dwayne?” Stern said. “Who’s going to go to a Dwayne Johnson movie? I mean, honestly.”

That was 19 years ago. I think it’d be fair to say that the results are now in. The simple, empirical truth is this: Dwayne Johnson is the most successful movie star in the world, and has been for some time. For each of the last five years, he was, according to Forbes’s annual list, either the highest or second-highest paid actor. (In that period, he is estimated to have earned a total of $430.4 million.)

“It sits me down,” says Johnson, mulling this circumstance. “It sits me down. That was never the goal. The goal was just: I didn’t want to be broke. And I didn’t want my family to be broke anymore.” In person—for our first meeting we’re sitting in a Los Angeles hotel room, and he’s idly nursing a different glass of tequila—his affect is far more reflective and soft-spoken than it usually is in the movies that have made him all this money. “And it’s a blessing, man. Are you kidding me? It’s a blessing. It’s a blessing. It’s a blessing.”

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A few days later, Johnson heads alone to the gym. (He, his wife, Lauren, and his two young daughters, Jasmine and Tiana, are living in a Los Angeles rental while their new house is being built, so he temporarily has his private gym elsewhere.) Johnson is driving himself, as he always likes to, in one of the four pickup trucks he owns. “I’m a pickup truck guy,” he will tell me later, “so I have big tires and a big pickup truck. It belongs in the country, but it rolls through this hood.”

On this particular morning, as Johnson nears a stoplight, he realizes that he will be drawing alongside an open-topped Big Bus Celebrity Homes & Lifestyle Tour bus. Johnson’s driver’s side window is down, and he leaves it down. He begins to film what happens next, himself in frame.

“Hey, you guys,” he says out the window. “You know where I could find The Rock?”

The rest is shock, awe, and manic photo taking.

“Ah well, that was fun,” says Johnson to the camera. “Good way to start off my Saturday.”

Johnson is not the first celebrity to surprise a bus tour, but it doesn’t feel like he’s acting out of duty or a need for attention or as a prank or even (well, maybe just a little) because he knows it’ll make for good Instagram content. When I ask him about it later he simply says, “It’s one of the joys,” and I believe he means this. The more I talk to Johnson, the more I believe that he genuinely does see moments like this as fun—fun for them and fun for him. Fun all around. When I mention how many of his neighbors must roll up their darkened windows at that point, he responds: “Yeah, I’m sure they do. I think they’re missing out. It’s one of the best parts of fame, you know, to make people feel good. Oh, it’s the best. I do that all the time.” Later, he brings this up again, to append a further thought: “There was a time when no one knew who I was, nor gave a shit. I roll the windows down as a reminder. What an incredible position to be in. You got a chance to make somebody’s day.”

Johnson’s friend Oprah Winfrey detects something distinctive at work here. “Most people have the ‘Do you see me?’ gene,” she says, “but he truly has the ‘I see you’ gene. And I think the reason why he’s adored is because he is adoring of other people…. He really is what he appears to be. And people know that.”

The Johnson philosophy—fun for them, fun for him—also animates the movies he makes. “It is as simple as it sounds: Let’s make people feel good,” he says. And this goal also determines, to some degree, what he chooses to do in front of the camera: “There are a lot of actors—and a lot of my friends—that utilize the platform of acting to explore their emotional shit. What has worked for me is a lighter touch, as it relates to that. I would prefer not to explore my emotional shit in my movies because for me, that’s my responsibility to go figure out. That’s a lot of sludge. It’s more important to me to impact as many people as possible on day one. I don’t need acting to work out my personal shit. I work it out on my own.”

Don’t worry: Johnson has had plenty of sludge in his real life. There was enough incident and torment in his early years that if you, say, lightly fictionalized it, you could probably make a lessons-learned network TV show out of it all. (As they have. The second season of Young Rock returns to NBC in the new year after a one-off Christmas special.)

Johnson was born into professional wrestling. His Black Canadian father, Rocky Johnson, was a successful wrestler, as was his Samoan maternal grandfather, Peter Maivia. This was wrestling before the large national audiences and big paydays. It wasn’t an easy life. Dwayne was born 49 years ago in Hayward, near San Francisco, but the family frequently moved wherever a sustained period of wrestling work could be found. There are two particular moments in Johnson’s life that he often refers to as low points from which he derives motivation. The second occurred much later, when—in the final indignity of his failed football career—he was cut from the Canadian Football League at the age of 22. As he was being driven back to live with his parents, he searched through his pockets to find all the money he had in the world: a five, a one, and some change. (Johnson would memorialize the moment in the name of his film company, Seven Bucks Productions.)

The first event came when he was 14. The family had been based in Hawaii for some time, but his father was off wrestling in Tennessee. One day, he and his mother came home to their Hawaii apartment to find a padlock and an eviction notice. His mother was distraught. “That was a defining moment,” he says. “I remember at 14 thinking, I will never, ever have my parents go through this again.”

What followed was a particularly tumultuous period. Johnson, now just turned 15, was sent ahead to Nashville, where, instead of staying with his father as he expected, he moved into a seedy motel room with one of his father’s wrestling friends, Bruno Lauer. “Who the fuck is Bruno?” Johnson remembers wondering. Nonetheless the two of them struck up an unusual friendship. Johnson’s role was to drive Lauer to his downtown Nashville drinking haunts, as well as to keep them both well supplied with anything they needed. Johnson had learned to steal in Hawaii. Back then, it was mainly clothes—“I just didn’t want to wear the same old shorts and T-shirt and flip-flops every day”—though he would also lift a king-size Snickers from the same 7-Eleven every day between 4 and 4:30 in the afternoon as he walked the three or four miles to the gym. Just breezed in, breezed out, without buying anything else. “They had to have known,” he now reflects.

In Nashville, Johnson used the same skills. “He’ll tell you himself—he was a thief,” Lauer tells me. “ ‘Bruno, you want some cigarettes? I got you a quart of beer. I got us some hot dogs, some this, some that…. I got me a radio….’ ” Johnson would pretend that people had given him the stuff for free because they were fans of Lauer or of his father, but of course Lauer knew the truth. “Hell, back then I didn’t have any morals either,” Lauer says. “I was benefiting too!”

Johnson’s mother arrived in Tennessee about a month after her son. Johnson knew that his father had been seeing someone else and that trouble was looming. Within minutes of her arrival, his mother spotted the Illinois plates on the vehicle her husband was driving and demanded, “Whose car is that?”

The fight started in the motel—“not physical, but a massive fight,” says Johnson—and then they took a pause so that the warring parents and their teenage son could have an uneasy meal at Shoney’s Big Boy. “You can imagine,” he says, “what that lunch was like.” That evening Rocky was due to wrestle in a town maybe 100 miles away, so after the fighting resumed in the parking lot, they headed off. Johnson’s parents drove ahead in the car with the Illinois plates, and he followed them onto I-65 in the car his mother had driven from California. Even from behind, he could see that his parents were continuing to fight. A few miles outside Nashville, the car his father was driving abruptly swerved onto the gravel.

“My mom gets out, completely glazed over in her eyes, and walks into I-65, walks in the middle of the highway,” Johnson says. “Into traffic. Big rigs swerving. Like she felt, ‘What has my life come to? I don’t care anymore.’ ”

Johnson rushed from his car, ran into the traffic, grabbed his mother, and pulled her to the side of the road.

To this day, his mother remembers nothing of that moment.

“I think what breaks her heart is that I saw it, and I pulled her from the highway,” Johnson says. “That’s the part that really hurts her.”

I ask him whether that day on I-65 was the end of his parents’ marriage.

“No,” he says. “That was in ’87. And they didn’t get a divorce until I was 34 years old, which would have made it 2006. My mom always felt that she wanted to stay in the marriage and make it work.” She only changed her mind when her son was able to buy her her own house; she asked Johnson to sit with them while she broke the news to Rocky.

As for Johnson’s life of larceny, that would finally end the following year. In the fall of 1987, the three of them moved to Bethlehem, Pennsylvania. Winter was closing in, and Johnson needed warm clothes, so he obtained some—and got caught. His mother came down to the police station to get him. Later, back home, she broke down and pleaded with him not to do it anymore. In Hawaii he’d been arrested several times, but they had family connections there and could count on some leniency. Not here.

In that moment, Johnson says, he realized something.

“I started caring that night. I’ll never forget it. I’ll never forget going to bed going, ‘Of all the shit my mom has been through and that I have been right there watching and witnessing, now I am compounding it with my dumb-ass decisions.’ ”

And he never stole anything ever again?

“No. That was it.”

Johnson pauses. Sometimes he just can’t help himself.

“Only hearts,” he adds.

As for his father, Johnson says that the incident on I-65 “triggered a real anger for my dad from me.” Going forward, their relationship was forever complicated. For instance, at the end of his football career, Johnson told his father he wanted to become a wrestler, and his father initially spurned him. “I said, ‘I want to get into the business,’ ” Johnson says, then recounts his father’s reaction: “Absolutely not. You got nothing to offer.” But then his father relented and trained him.

Over time, their relationship would get better, but it would never get easy.

“The irony is I fucking idolized my dad as a boy,” he says. “I idolized him, man. And obviously that idealization started to wane over the years. But the older I got, and the more experienced I got, the more I could appreciate his love for me in that limited capacity.”

Johnson met his first wife, Dany Garcia, when he was 18. They were both at the University of Miami, where Johnson believed himself on track to become an NFL star. In 2001, they had a daughter, Simone, but by the summer of 2007 they were divorcing. It somehow seems characteristic of Johnson’s story that even this defeat would morph into a different kind of victory: A year or so after their split, Garcia took charge of Johnson’s management, and their business partnership has been at the center of his accomplishments since, in movies and far beyond.

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When Johnson first met Lauren—a musician and singer whose father, Sib Hashian, was Boston’s drummer in the band’s heyday—he says that he presented her with what he calls “the suit of armor.” “Which was: Everything is great. Life is great. Going through divorce, yes, but it’s great. Have a child who’s five or six at that time—it’s great.” A few months later, when it was clear things were getting serious between them, he realized that he needed to let her in. “And that truth was: Things are fucking hard. And this divorce is tough and it’s kicking my ass. And I’m really struggling, trying to figure out what kind of father I can be and not trying to bring the baggage of my own relationship—my complicated relationship—with my own dad to this relationship with Simone. I don’t know what the fuck is going on, what’s going to happen in my career, because things, they’re not hitting the way I’d anticipated. So I had done a little bit of ripping myself open to her and sharing the truth and feeling like, if we have a shot at a life together and if you’re going to love me, then the best version that I could give that is worthy of your love is one that’s truthful. So: ‘I’m working hard. I’m trying. I don’t have all the fucking answers at all. And I want you to know that truth.’ ”

That was almost 15 years ago. They were finally married in August 2019, in Hawaii, the ocean before them, in a small family ceremony that they managed to stage without word leaking beforehand. The wedding itself was at nine in the morning; in taking their vows, Johnson said not “I do” but “absolutely do.”

“I think I have had to be nothing but myself with Lauren,” he tells me. “And she has had to be nothing but herself with me.”

In its own sweet way, their wedding night honored that contract. Back at the hotel, when he realized that Lauren was exhausted, he told her that she should just go to bed. Johnson himself wasn’t tired, so he sat in the other room with all these “cheat foods” that he’d ordered—“chocolate chip cookies and cheesecake and vanilla ice cream”—and poured himself a tequila. Then he flicked through the available movies, landing on the Elton John fantasy biopic Rocketman. Really enjoyed it.

“So,” he says, softly amused, “my wedding night, yeah, was me and Elton and sugar and tequila.”

On the day when lemon cake awaits, Jasmine will actually interrupt our conversation more than once. The first time, Johnson introduces us and tells his daughter that he and I first knew each other a long time ago.

This is true. Johnson and I spent three days together back in 2002, when he was promoting The Scorpion King.

First I accompanied him to wrestling shows in Detroit and Cleveland, Johnson driving me between the two cities. (He had, I recall, a rather contrary attitude toward one-way streets. “Ah well,” he laughs, when I remind him of this, “no cop, no stop, you know?”) Then we took a private plane to Cancún, where he was filming a spring break show for MTV.

“He knew Daddy 20 years ago,” Johnson tells Jasmine now.

“Twenty years ago?” she says, as though trying to conceive of this.

“When I was wrestling,” Johnson explains.

“He was wrestling with you?” Jasmine asks, peering at me with what I fear is a certain skepticism.

“He wishes,” says Johnson.

I ask Jasmine if she thinks that, had I been a wrestler, I would have won.

“No,” she says.

It clearly means something to Johnson that we shared these previous experiences. “I’m sure, knowing myself back then, I probably kept up a veneer that didn’t tell you how nervous I was,” he says. “That guy back then, oh, man. He was nervous as a motherfucker and didn’t know what was going on. And he was flying by the seat of his pants.”

After The Scorpion King, Johnson’s career seemed to thrive for a while, then tapered off. He had been doing what he had been advised was required to build Hollywood credibility, putting as much distance as possible between himself and his wrestling past as The Rock, losing weight and bulk to appear more normal, even though in his gut something felt off. Eventually, Johnson brought his CAA agents together for a reboot and told them he had his eye on Will Smith’s and George Clooney’s careers: “I said, ‘Those are the guys who are on top. And I don’t know how, but I feel like if we can all go shoulder to shoulder on this, I feel like there’s a pathway to that kind of success, only different and maybe better or bigger.’ ” Johnson was hoping that at least some of those in the room would somehow see what he saw. They did not. “If I had thought bubbles of everybody in that room at that time,” he reflects, “it was probably ‘What fucking drugs are you on?’ ”

So he and his ex-wife built a new team. One pivotal part of the ascent that followed was the huge success of his appearances in the Fast & Furious film franchise. Fast Five—in which his character, Luke Hobbs, was introduced—would nearly double the previous installment’s gross, something that Johnson acknowledges “really lit a rocket under my market value in our business.” He returned for the next three films, as well as the spin-off Hobbs & Shaw.

But behind the scenes there had been a growing schism between Johnson and Vin Diesel, serious enough that Johnson only agreed to return for the series’ eighth installment, The Fate of the Furious, on the condition that he and Diesel shared no scenes. “I wanted to forgo drama,” he tells me. “I thought that that was the best thing to do. For everybody.”

It clearly wasn’t enough; their issues sprung into the open with a now-notorious Instagram post that Johnson wrote a week before the end of production. He subsequently deleted it, but not before it had traveled far and wide. It read, in part: “My female co-stars are always amazing and I love ’em. My male co-stars however are a different story. Some conduct themselves as stand up men and true professionals, while others don’t. The ones that don’t are too chicken sh*t to do anything about it anyway. Candy asses. When you watch this movie next April and it seems like I’m not acting in some of these scenes and my blood is legit boiling—you’re right.” He closed things out with the hashtag #ZeroToleranceForCandyAsses.

“Candy ass,” as previously mentioned, was one of The Rock’s trademark wrestling put-downs. For clarity, and at my request, Johnson supplies the following definition: “A candy ass is something you don’t want to be. And the best way that I can describe a candy ass is: Life is so much easier, I have found, when you are not full of shit. And a candy ass is completely full of shit.”

I ask Johnson whether something specific had happened on set to provoke his post.

“Nothing specific happened, just the same old shit,” he says. “And that just wasn’t my best day.”

Because of what happened, I ask, or because he chose to share it on Instagram?

“Chose to share it.”

He regretted it?

Johnson laughs. “It caused a firestorm. Yet interestingly enough…[it was] as if every single crew member found their way to me and either quietly thanked me or sent me a note. But, yeah, it wasn’t my best day, sharing that. I shouldn’t have shared that. Because at the end of the day, that goes against my DNA. I don’t share things like that. And I take care of that kind of bullshit away from the public. They don’t need to know that. That’s why I say it wasn’t my best day.”

But, I confirm, he wouldn’t take it back—he just wouldn’t share it publicly?

“No, I meant what I said. For sure. I mean what I say when I say it. But to express it publicly was not the right thing to do.”

It was subsequently reported that some kind of peace meeting took place soon afterward in Johnson’s trailer.

“Well, there was a meeting,” Johnson tells me, laughing. “I wouldn’t call it a peaceful meeting. I would call it a meeting of clarity. He and I had a good chat in my trailer, and it was out of that chat that it really became just crystal clear that we are two separate ends of the spectrum. And agreed to leave it there.”

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Johnson says that he and Diesel are “philosophically two different people, and we approach the business of moviemaking in two very different ways.” The faults he sees in Diesel seem pretty clear from this description he offers of his own contrasting philosophy: “It’s the philosophy of going into work every day. Looking at everybody as equal partners. And looking at the studio as equal partners. And looking at the crew, regardless of where you’re at, either on the call sheet or otherwise, as equal partners—with respect and with humility, and being respectful of the process and every other human being who is putting in just as much time, just as much hard work and sweat equity, if not more. And I think it’s always been important to me to always be straight up and look somebody in the eye. And if you say you’re going to do something, do it.”

Over time, Diesel has voiced his own oblique observations about this situation. He has put down their differences to them being two alpha males (Johnson: “Sounds like him to say that, sure”); characterized Johnson, perhaps slightly patronizingly, as Hollywood’s second “multicultural megastar” whom he’s proud to see following in his footsteps (Johnson: “He talks like that”); and said that “I protected Dwayne more than he’ll ever know…but he appreciates it. He knows he only has one big brother in the film world, and that’s me.” (Johnson: “I have one big brother and it’s my half brother. And that’s it.”)

Then, this summer, in an interview in Men’s Health, Diesel returned to the subject, casting any conflict as the benign side effect of purposeful method manipulation on his part. “My approach at the time was a lot of tough love to assist in getting that performance where it needed to be. As a producer to say, Okay, we’re going to take Dwayne Johnson, who’s associated with wrestling, and we’re going to force this cinematic world, audience members, to regard his character as someone that they don’t know—Hobbs hits you like a ton of bricks. That’s something that I’m proud of, that aesthetic. That took a lot of work. We had to get there and sometimes, at that time, I could give a lot of tough love. Not Fellini-esque, but I would do anything I’d have to do in order to get performances in anything I’m producing.”

Reminded of this quote, Johnson at first simply bellows with laughter.

“You know, I’ll tell you this,” he says eventually. “One part of me feels like there’s no way I would dignify any of that bullshit with an answer. But here’s the truth. I’ve been around the block a lot of times. Unlike him, I did not come from the world of theater. And, you know, I came up differently and was raised differently. And I came from a completely different culture and environment. And I go into every project giving it my all. And if I feel that there’s some things that need to be squared away and handled and taken care of, then I do it. And it’s just that simple. So when I read that, just like everybody else, I laughed. I laughed hard. We all laughed. And somewhere I’m sure Fellini is laughing too.”

Other collaborators think of Johnson far more fondly. Ryan Reynolds, who costars in this month’s Red Notice, has known him for 20 years. (By odd coincidence, he hitched a ride on the same plane with us back from Cancún in 2002.) “The thing that sets him apart,” Reynolds says, “is obviously he’s kind of superhuman in stature and looks and charisma and all those things, but he has an innate ability to always laugh at himself. And that, in and of itself, is a superpower, you know? I mean, that opens the door, you know, spiritually, emotionally, and literally. I think that’s always been in his arsenal, and that’s always been the thing that I think really allows people in.” He offers a further observation: “I think sort of the allure of D.J. is that to a certain extent he wears his heart on his sleeve, and there is, underneath the muscles—which are all, by the way, spray-on muscles, I found out when we were shooting—he is incredibly vulnerable.”

Emily Blunt, who starred with Johnson in Jungle Cruise, echoes the sentiment. “I know the first thing everyone notices is that colossal framework of a human, but what people who really know him well know is that held inside it is this equally oceanic compassion and humility,” she says. “He’s got this sort of blazing charisma that he’s really known for, but he’s quite shy and introverted. He’s an interesting and very rare mix of really confident and really humble.” Blunt adds: “He also happens to be a tequila-swilling, fun-as-hell hang, and he’s got the filthiest laugh in the world.”

You get some sense of Blunt and Johnson’s comic antagonist-buddies rapport in Jungle Cruise, but a more untethered version can be seen in some of the interviews they did together to promote the film. “He has no boundaries whatsoever,” Blunt tells me. “He’s a very confusing person, because he’s the most polite gentleman in the world, and then he will just push the boundaries until he is saying things that will just make your head spin to make you laugh…. I think that he’s got this rebellious kid in him that won’t be straitjacketed.” In one interview, asked what they would take into the jungle, Johnson suggested Vagisil for Blunt, who, not to be outdone, countered with anal beads for her costar. This is not how Disney family films are generally plugged, and Johnson concedes that this particular conversation provoked concern. “I can’t tell you,” he says, “how quick we got those calls: ‘We really love your chemistry and what you guys are doing—but can we dial it back a little bit on the anal beads?’ ” Not that he was particularly of a mind to listen. If your true imperative is to be yourself, you have to let that water flow where it needs to flow.

“I don’t like to feel like I have constraints on or am trying to fit a mold or ‘This is how it’s done, so this is how you should do it,’ ” he says. “I do have a little bit of a challenge with that. Maybe a lot of a challenge. And so when they say ‘Dial it back,’ I say, ‘Sure! Watch this!’ ”

Red Notice, with Reynolds and Gal Gadot, appears on Netflix this month. (Rawson Thurber, who wrote and directed it, calls it “an old-school, globe-trotting swashbuckler action-adventure comedy writ large: big action, big laughs, big stars, big twists.” Which is actually a pretty fair description. It is also, says Johnson, “the biggest movie Netflix has invested in.”) Production was suspended for lockdown, during which first Lauren, then both young girls, and then Johnson caught COVID. Johnson kept posting on Instagram as though nothing was happening; he didn’t want people to know, not while he was still working out how bad this might be. “It was a daunting time,” he says, “because you never know how sideways this can go.” In the end, none of them suffered too much. Lauren’s symptoms were the worst. Johnson just had some fatigue and body aches, no fever, but he did lose his sense of taste and smell for a month.

The night before Johnson was due back on set, there was a storm, and he awoke to find that the power was out at his home in Georgia. Trying to leave the property—clock ticking on a massive production—Johnson was perturbed to discover that the weighty metal gates blocking his driveway wouldn’t open. The manual override didn’t work either.

Most of us, at this juncture, would have bowed to a circumstance beyond our control. Is it a surprise to discover that that is not the Dwayne Johnson way? Johnson started to push at the gate. And push harder and harder. Until—this is a man, bear in mind, who can bench-press well over 400 pounds—he ripped the gate’s hinges loose from the wall. He did so abruptly enough, in fact, that the gate gashed his forehead before he could throw it down.

As is also his way, Johnson posted about what he had done on Instagram—“not my finest hour but a man’s gotta go to work”—showing the gate discarded on the verge outside his driveway. (He didn’t show a picture of himself because he didn’t want people to see his wound.) The next day he also posted footage of the three repairmen as they carried one of these gates between them with some evident difficulty. Many of the subsequent comments praised the superhero-esque nature of Johnson’s feat, though these were somewhat eclipsed by a laconic note from Reynolds: “The gate opened the OTHER way.”

“Well,” retorts Johnson now, as though offering necessary context, “he’s an asshole.”

I remind Reynolds of this day’s events.

“Oh, yes, of course, his gate,” he says. “I guess he ripped it off its hinges because Dwayne has rabies.”

In recent years, Johnson’s movie career has been only one aspect of what he does. Aside from various TV projects, his many other pursuits include his Project Rock Collection sportswear brand with Under Armour; his own sports drink, Zoa; co-owning the XFL football league; as well as the aforementioned tequila, Teremana. Johnson summarizes it like this: “I consider myself an industrialist and an entrepreneur and a businessman as well. And I’m in the relationship business. I’m in the customer service business. I’m in the consumer product business. And I’m certainly in the movie business.” Johnson’s excitement when he talks about these other parts of his life seems entirely unforced. “I love building,” he says. “And I love creating products and brands that have a certain quality to them to deliver to people. But I think the stripped-away answer here is: I love it. I love what I do. Honestly, I love building from scratch with these two old dinosaur hands.”

Winfrey, who knows a little about this kind of success, tells me, “The reason I feel a connection to The Rock, to Dwayne, is because I see so much of myself in him. Not in the physicality. Not in the disciplined workout. Not in that. But I see this kind of hunger that he has for life and for bettering himself…. And the truth is, it doesn’t matter how many followers he has, or how popular or how much money…I always say my heart is my brand. His heart and his mana is his brand, right?… You can sit with your team and you can plan what the next level of growth in your company is going to be and what you want to do, but you cannot buy the people’s trust. What he’s sharing with you, no matter what that is—you believe it. Whether you drink tequila or not, you believe that he believes that’s great tequila. Now you want some of that tequila! And that’s his brand—his brand is his truth, and the trust that we have in that truth.”

“Just the energy and the drive that this guy has,” observes his friend Dana White, president of the Ultimate Fighting Championship. “I mean, eventually most people get to a point where, ‘All right, I’ve pretty much done it all, I’ve achieved everything, I have a ton of money.’ Not this guy. The drive is unbelievable. That’s who he is. This guy loves to win. And I think he was raised with some hard-core work ethic.”

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Johnson stresses the latter. “I think these days there could be a tendency for people to think that things come easy,” he says. “It does not. No, it’s actually quite the opposite. You know, I stay up at night, putting in the work, but also really deeply contemplating the next move, and the multiple moves, and the impact and effect that this one thing will have.” He also, sooner or later, always relates his drive ever forward back to those formative experiences in his youth. “If you’ve ever been hungry,” he says, “then you’ll never be full.”

When I point out to Johnson that, nonetheless, he must be aware that the wolf is some distance from the door now, he jumps on this notion with a certain glee. “It’s so funny you bring that up. I say that all the time—that the wolf is always scratching. In my mind, I’m always a few days away from getting evicted.”

I ask Johnson whether he’d like to be a billionaire.

“Hell, yeah,” he says. “Sure!”

And, I continue, does he think he’s going to be?

It says plenty that Johnson receives this question not as one about speculative pie-in-the-sky ambition but as one requesting practical information.

“I don’t like to think like that, in those terms,” he says, “but I hear you, and I’ll just say that I’m aware what these valuations of these businesses that are growing are and what the street value is, and what the trajectory is. I’ll just say that. For example, we’ll take Teremana. George Clooney, as you know, he sold his tequila for a billion dollars. At that time when he sold it, they were selling approximately 150,000 to 175,000 cases [a year]. We are approximately 600,000 cases right now, as you and I speak. So that will give you an idea of what the valuation of the company is, and the brand. So there’s my answer.”

Still, there are some moments in all lives for which no amount of success can offer sufficient insulation. On January 15, 2020, the first morning of the Red Notice production, Johnson was just pulling off the freeway exit in Atlanta when his phone rang. It was his family assistant. “I have some news,” she said. “Your father just passed away.”

Johnson said he’d call back. He pulled into the production base camp and sat there in his truck. Around him, people were waving and happy, fired up with day-one enthusiasm.

“I was just numb,” he tells me. “I sat in my truck for about 10 minutes. And I didn’t know…. I was trying to figure out what my next move was. Do I call my mom? Do I call my wife? Do I call my dad’s wife?”

Eventually he phoned his wife, asking her not to tell his mother until he could be there. After, he sat there some more. Should he head home right now? He couldn’t decide. Then he heard his father’s voice in his head. Wrestling was a tough world, not without its early deaths, and Johnson remembered what his father would always say in their wake: “The show must go on.” That was his father’s way, and that was the guidance his son would take that day.

Johnson left his truck and went to work. It was a day of camera and costume tests. He didn’t tell anyone. “Nobody needs to know that,” he says. “Work all that out on my own.”

The following week, Johnson delivered an emotional eulogy at his father’s funeral. “Man, I wish I had one more shot,” he began, “you know, just to say goodbye, say I love you, say I thank you, I respect you….” When we first meet in Los Angeles, he echoes the same thought to me, talking about “when you don’t get a chance to say goodbye, there’s just so much, like, inventory check that you do.”

A few days later, during one of our last conversations, we wander back to the same subject. “I wish I had another shot to say goodbye to my old man,” he says. “Because…” Johnson pauses. We have been sharing increasingly intense personal discussions—I lost my own father suddenly not long before these interviews—and Johnson now decides to tell me a fuller, more painful version of those last weeks.

Toward the end of 2019, his father had published a memoir, Soulman: The Rocky Johnson Story. Johnson was well aware that his father had been planning a book. “I was all for it,” he says, “and I was an advocate for it. I just had asked him months in advance, ‘My only ask is that you be real and open and honest and forthright with what you want to say, and be careful about what you say.’ ”

Johnson received a copy of Soulman only after it was published and his father was out doing book signings. What he read he found extremely disappointing and distressing. Repeatedly, in Johnson’s eyes, the book’s stories aggrandized his father at the expense of the truth, and often at the expense of others who were no longer around to correct the record. And also at the expense of Johnson himself. “So much of it,” he says, “was not true.”

One section hit particularly hard, because it related to the moment in Johnson’s life—the eviction from their Hawaii apartment when he was 14—that for him is a foundational moment, a key event in their shared family history and one he has constantly referred back to over the course of his life. “In the book,” says Johnson, “he tells the reader this absolutely never happened. We were never evicted out of Hawaii. ‘And when I asked my son about it, he told me, oh, yeah, dad, I just tell that to make people feel good. I just tell that for people to make them feel good—if they’re going through hard times themselves, they’ll look at this and somehow become maybe a little inspired that they can get through their hard times, too.’ ”

An even more naked affront was loudly trailed on the book’s cover: “Foreword by Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson.” In this, Johnson purportedly shared detailed tales of how his father’s career had foreshadowed his own, explaining that “my dad was far more successful than I was, and for a much longer period of time.” Problem was, he had never written or said these words. “I was like, am I fucking crazy?” he tells me. “Did I write this? When did this happen? Again, I was so upset.” One sentence, in particular, stuck in his throat: “Rocky Johnson is responsible for everything I’ve done in wrestling, the movies, TV shows and overall business opportunities.”

And so, over Christmas, Johnson called his father to have it out.

“We got into a massive fight,” Johnson remembers. He says his father’s principal defense was one of denial, blaming his ghostwriter and apologizing only for not proofreading the book. The thing about the Hawaii eviction, for instance? He had never said that. The fake introduction? He had no idea it was there. (Later, I find a wrestling podcast in which the book’s ghostwriter, Scott Teal, openly discusses having written this “Dwayne Johnson” foreword, though he states that he did so at Rocky’s instruction and with Rocky’s guidance.)

The conversation between Johnson and his father was a rough one. “It was the biggest fight we’ve ever had, and we had gotten into some doozies in the past,” he says. “I had leaned into my dad like I never had before because I was just really disappointed and hurt.” And that was where things were left between them. Normally, Johnson says, he prefers not to let things fester. “I like to take care of things with expediency. And if there’s some shit we need to take care of, let’s take care of it. Let’s dive into it. Even if it’s hard, it’s okay. But that was a different thing. It’s just a different, unique relationship that you have with your old man.”

That phone call would be the last time they spoke.

“We had some good times,” says Johnson. “We had some rough times. We had some fighting times. And my dad always knew that there were parts of his life that were fucked up. And in the end, away from the noise, we had some pretty raw conversations about who he was, and who he always wanted me to be. And the good stuff is what will always be in the forefront of my mind, because I recognize that in our complicated testosterone-driven relationship, some of the best parts of me that I’ve been fortunate to share with the world I get from him. The resilience, the work ethic, the ‘No one’s gonna give it to you, so you got to get your ass out there and work it, earn respect’ type of credo, I get from him. And I will always carry that with me.”

As Johnson tells me this, his voice often breaks. Several times he pauses. “Hold on one second,” he says. “It’ll pass.”

We both wait. And then Dwayne Johnson gathers himself and carries ever onward.


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